Anonymous asked: I'm in a problem. I have a wonderful boyfriend whom I'm in love with. I also have this friend whom I care for and like. We've apparently had a relationship in a previous life. I don't want to lose either of them. I'm open with my friend, but closed off with my boyfriend. I can't tell my bf about the friend. He'll be jealous, even when the friend and I aren't in a relationship. I don't want to destroy the relationship with the bf. What do the cards have instore for me in this problem?
Tough love from me, Querent. I’m agnostic when it comes to past lives, but I’m downright intolerant of people using past-life experiences as a justification for destructive behavior in this life.
You are actively destroying your relationship with your boyfriend. If you stay together, you’ll eventually have to choose between admitting what you’ve been hiding, or making up new lies to continue the deceit. If you two break up, you’ll probably chalk it up to fate. How convenient — that will excuse you from taking any responsibility for your actions.
I find jealousy to be an equally intolerable quality in a partner, so I don’t date jealous people. I also would not want to date someone who hides relationships from me. So I guess at this point I wouldn’t blame either of you for deciding to end the relationship.
The Chariot indicates that the decisions you’re making now have longer-term results than you may be aware of. It also urges you to focus in a single direction and give yourself over to wherever it takes you. Your days of having your cake and eating it too are numbered. Decisive action is needed for you to continue growing and/or loving.
Take care, Querent!