troublingenigma-deactivated2013 asked: I entered a relationship without my mom knowing and i really wish to talk to her about it. Im scared that she'd hurt him if i did though. Should i still try to talk to her?
Wow. Ignoring everything I know about the actual card meanings for a moment, I have to say that the layout above looks exactly like an illustration of your fear — the woman on the left creating a magical explosion that seems to result in the guy on the Tower card being blown right out the window.
Look, I can’t say I have enough info here to tell you what the wisest or safest thing is to do. Sometimes parents are monstrous for good reasons, and sometimes they’re monstrous for terrible reasons. And sometimes, they’re just monsters. There are times when you can make things worse by telling, and times when you can make things worse by not telling. Learning to tell the difference is part of growing up, and unfortunately sometimes the consequences either way can be quite steep.
I’m not psychic or anything like that. But I did get a chill looking at the images above, and seeing that you specifically chose the word “hurt” to describe what she might do. My weak, weaselly answer is that you should explore this relationship for a while and see if it goes anywhere before deciding whether it’s worth talking to Mom about.
In the meantime, please follow your instincts and do talk to someone else about all this. Not just a friend, but someone older who you can trust. If anything bad does happen as a result of all this, it’s invaluable to have someone who knows the situation and who just might be able to help.
Be safe, Querent.
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